Why is MGTOW lifestyle so appealing to modern men?

In past articles, I have explained what is MGTOW, various levels of MGTOW and dangers of having relationships and marriages in India. In this article, I will try to cover why is MGTOW lifestyle so appealing, especially in 2021. Remember, MGTOW is a way of life, not a movement.

No fake cases/allegations

Lets cover the most obvious one first. Many men spend their most productive years, either fighting fake cases or in fear of fake cases. The fake allegations of rape, sexual harassment, domestic violence are extremely common all across the world. If you are a MGTOW, you don’t have to deal with all this at all. You keep minimum female contact, and hence are almost immune to fake allegations. Only thing is to avoid fake Sexual Harassment claims at workplace, by following simple discipline like not talking to female colleagues in closed meeting rooms, not hanging out with them, and keeping minimum required professional contact. If you are an entrepreneur, then even better, you can completely avoid female contact, and avoid fake allegations.

Power of autonomy

Almost all decisions of married men/men in relationships (lets call them non-MGTOW from now on) are not autonomous. They have to either get approval from their partner, or just do what they say. Otherwise they have to bear days of nagging and whining, which can lead to fake allegations if you ever take a stand. Don’t let other men fool you, not a single non-MGTOW man is autonomous. Modern women are extremely controlling, and the laws have made them unapologetic about exercising control. Being MGTOW gives you complete control on your own life. This can be a liberating experience. You want to sit at home on weekend doing absolutely nothing? You can do that. You want to travel to some scenic spot alone at 5 AM in morning? You can do that. Complete autonomy over your own life.

Pursue Hobbies Unrestricted

One more big limitation of non-MGTOW men is that they either have to give up their hobbies or follow them in limited sense. Their partners tend to look down upon their hobbies. For example, if you liked Gaming before, you pretty much have to give it up because the woman will never allow you to spend time and money on anything other than her. I know a case when a guy bought a powerful kickass speaker setup, but couldn’t gather courage to tell his wife about it. He kept it in his car for 2 weeks, waiting for the right time to tell her, and when he finally told her, she asked him to return it because it was too “costly”. So what is the point of making money if you can’t spend it how you want? Other hobbies like watching sports with your buddies are also frowned upon by women. As MGTOW, you are free to follow your hobbies and have recreational time at your own leisure and convinience.

Stress free life and work

How many times have you heard from non-MGTOW men that they want to earn more to provide a comfortable life for their wife and kids? You can see them sucking up to their bosses or working 12 hours a day, for that elusive promotion so that they can keep meeting the demands of their kids and wife. During time of layoffs, they are extremely stressed, worrying about their kid’s school fees or their house EMIs. The heart attacks among young men are at all time high, major reasons being overwork and stress. As MGTOW, you will not be worried about this. Whatever you earn is sufficient and even a job loss affect you that much, if your savings are good. You don’t have to work 12 hours a day if you don’t want to OR you can work 16 hours a day if that is what you enjoy. There will be no one waiting at home crying that you are not giving them enough time and attention. You can fulfil your professional goals easily. There are many examples of MGTOW inventors and celebrities to follow. Nikola Tesla is a perfect example.

Save more money

Its a known fact that a man’s 1/3rd savings are spent on his wife/girlfriend, whether she is earning or not. Then once you have kids, even more is spent on their school. You are stuck in this vicious circle of being a provider for life. As MGTOW, you can save way more compared to non-MGTOW. And then you can spend on whatever you want, no restrictions. Even if a MGTOW is at several levels below a non-MGTOW guy in same company, he would save more. If you want to save more money, which will be spent as per your wish, MGTOW is the way.

Conclusion

These are just few points I covered as advantages for being MGTOW and how they make MGTOW appealing. You can add more in comments. In next article, I will cover what are the roadblocks or factors that prevent men from fully embracing MGTOW lifestyle, and how to overcome them, especially in India.